is it just all about how great you can bargain?

here's another silly thought of mine! :)

hey there folks, have you ever been in relationship? i don't know since when, i start to keep wondering about how to make a relationship works? i somehow believe that relationship could be succeed or not, is based on what we've agreed at the first time..
you know, at the very first time, before we really sure that we're going to have a relationship with someone, we're really have to think about how well we knew this someone, how well we can get along with this someone, and etc.. and we sort of making our own "rules", and try to adjust that into someone's elses rules. and when its works on both of you, then BAM! you are now in a relationship! quite easy eh?:)

but what i'm really concerning here is, is it just all about how great you can bargain? or about which one is having more advantages in that relationship? it's just strikes me out! PATHETIC, isn't it? but then again, in some levels, it is true! i hate to admit this, but somehow, when i questioning about this, i always end up with agreeing with those statements.. hmm.. it's a good thing tho, if you think you can connected those things with commitment! yeahs, commitment is good! hehe.. but still, is it all just about that? where's love, caring, sweet talk, and stuffs? does the commitment is making those stuffs gone? if its a yes, then being a marriage couple, where commitment is above everything is really such a disaster eh? hehe..
well, i'm not saying i'm afraid of that commitment thingy, or too chicken for being a mariage couple! i love being tight into relationship, i love rules, commitment, and everything around it! hehe.. but yes, then again! i'm just a newbie in this full serious commitment of life! and asking so many questions lead me to it closer! errrr.. am i? hehe..
oke then, i'm out! :)


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