JEALOUSY AND COMMUNICATION

jealousy.. have you ever feel it? how far would you go to show it to someone else? it's an interesting thing to be discussed, i guess..

Each person would have felt jealous, the only difference is in what level the jealous is? well, i mean this is a jealous for a spouse, in particullar ..
many things are affecting the level of jealousy, here's some of the examples : the reason why we are jealous, the people that makes us feel it, how long we have been in a relationship, and how far we "did things" in that relationship.. and sure there's more things that also follow the influence of jealousy!

i kinda in the middle of couple's drama now, i mean the drama of jealousy thingy! i dont want to spoil someone's misfortune here. but sometimes, my curiousity's killing me! i end up with asking so many times, "WHY"? it isnt because s/he's not suppose to feel it, but i dont think someone in that quality could have done something that far, just to show her/his spouse they love them that much!

i think, all of those misunderstanding things are because of we cant find a way to communicate. for me, communication is like EVERYTHING! we can tell someone what we really want and let them understand by finding the rite way to say it.. yes, correct me if i'm wrong anyway, maybe few people said that love is conquers all odds, but how can you love a person if you barely even talk to him/her? it's for me like IMPOSSIBLE things to do!

hey come on, if there's something that you hate about your spouse, just let him/her knows! tell them! being angry, insulting, and end up with crying wont solve your problems! trust me! you can talk nicely, and find the way to solve it, TOGETHER! :)

so for the couple in fight out there, remember one thing! do u really want to lose him/her? if you dont, then TALK! and please dont let anyone elses got stuck in your way! it wont do any good! okay then, good luck! hope you guys are a happy couple, wherever you are! :)


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